Many women love penetrative sex, and large dildos are among some of the most popular sex toys. However, for those who love to use a bigger toy, there are tips on how to use a large dildo to maximize your pleasure.
If you are turned on by the idea of inserting a giant dildo inside your vagina or anus, we invite you to discover various techniques and suggestions on sex toys that would otherwise seem a bit intimidating.
What’s Considered A Large Dildo?
Most dildos are designed to resemble male genitalia, especially a realistic dildo. And if you consider that the size of an average penis is between 5.1 and 5.5 inches, a regular dildo is generally between 4 to 6 inches.
Therefore a larger dildo usually begins at 7 inches and higher.
However, large dildos can vary, and huge sex toys can range anywhere from 11 to 17 inches long with a circumference of 7 to 13 inches wide!
Suppose you are in the market for a larger toy and enjoy the sensation of using a huge dildo. In that case, the most important consideration is how it feels inside your body and what sex toy is best suited for your intimate enjoyment.
Types of big dildos
These popular sex toys can come in many styles and sizes. For example, large dildos can be designed to look more natural, like a real-life penis, or they can be shaped to look like a fantasy sex toy, such as a dog knotted dildo, tentacle dildo, horse cock dildo and many other different animal type dildos.
Regardless of your preference, there is nothing like trying a new toy, and for many queen sizes, a huge dildo can be a special treat.
Lifelike large dildos
A realistic sex toy can be a huge turn-on, especially in the case of a large dildo. With a lifelike model, the dildo is designed to have veins and sometimes testicles for a more realistic appearance.
These dildos also come in skin tone colors such as pale or medium flesh tones, black or brown.
Check out some of the best realistic lifelike dildos here, and also the best black dildos here.
Anal dildos
Choosing an anal sex toy is important for those who love backdoor pleasures. Unlike regular dildos, a dildo designed for anal play offers a flared base, which is essential for your safety and comfort.
Because the sphincter muscles inside the anus are strong, you could risk losing the dildo inside your body during anal play. That’s why it is crucial to use sex toys that are appropriately designed for penetrating the anus (which you can also use to penetrate the vagina as well).
See the best anal dildos here for the ultimate backdoor pleasure.
Hands-free pleasure
Large dildos that offer a suction cup base are perfect for hands-free use. To use a large, suction cup dildo, simply stick it to a non-porous surface, such as glass, marble, or bathroom tiles, so that the dildo can stay in place.
Once you’ve secured the suction cup base, the sky is the limit as far as pleasure.
You can use your hands to pleasure other parts of your body, or you can incorporate a partner by using your hands on them while you ride your huge dildo.
See some of the best dildo mounts and holders you can use with a dildo for hands free pleasure.
Why Do People Like Large Dildos?
The great thing about sex toys is that there are many varieties to choose from, including big and thick dildos. But why would someone want to play with an enormous sex toy?
To start, women enjoy the feeling of being ‘filled up’ and stretching their vaginal muscles.
Remember that the vaginal opening can expand enough to give birth and is generally reasonably elastic, and many women have reported that using a huge dildo feels amazing.
Sometimes a huge dildo is best for g-spot stimulation, providing more pleasure than a smaller toy. Other users may enjoy the challenge of using an extra large dildo.
Different Types of Penetrative Sex
We mentioned vaginal penetration above, but a huge dildo can stimulate more than the vagina. Plenty of men (and women!) also enjoy the sensation of the anus being penetrated.
Let’s explore the differences (and pleasures) of various orifices that can accommodate a huge dildo.
Penetrating the vagina
The muscles surrounding the vagina are stretchy enough to fit these large sex toys. Therefore, if the person is willing and aroused, they can fit most big dongs into the opening.
And while the vagina is self-lubricating, it never hurts to use additional lube to increase comfort and sensuality. Similar to most sex toys, it’s best to start slow and build up gradually more extreme forms of vaginal penetration.
Anal penetration
When using a large dildo to penetrate the anus, there are some essential issues to factor in.
Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating, so using an anal lubricant with your huge dildo is crucial.
Not only will lubricant make for sexier and more sexual experiences, but it will also keep your body from getting any tears in that sensitive and non-elastic area.
The last point is to go slow because, especially with anal exploration, there is absolutely no need to rush it!
Double penetration
Double penetration during sex can happen by incorporating your partner and a huge dildo. Or you can use two sex toys or double-ended dildo at the same time if you are solo. But, again, it’s important to remember that penetrating the anus will require proper preparation and a bit more care.
If your partner has a penis, that may determine what kind of dildo you choose during sex. For example, a partner with a penis could penetrate the vagina or the anus, so you can select which orifice will take the dildo.
Safety Precautions for Large Dildos
Whether you are having sex with a partner or enjoying a large dildo by yourself, below are some safety issues to consider when experimenting with monster dildos.
Consider the materials used with huge dildos.
When it comes to sex toys, there can be concerns about specific types of materials used, especially if they are not considered body-safe.
In general, dildos medical-grade silicone and borosilicate glass are the best materials because they are non-toxic, non-porous, and easy to disinfect. In addition, especially regarding anal sex, using a body-safe dildo is important.
There are plenty of inexpensive, huge dildos that are made from cheaper materials. Unless you suffer from allergies, such as latex, selecting a large dildo made from more toxic materials is not the end of the world. Still, we recommend covering it with a condom as an extra precaution.
Don’t use silicone lube in a silicone toy.
Silicone toys are well made, soft, and comfortable. And a silicone lubricant is generally longer-lasting than a water-based lubricant, which makes it especially great for anal sex.
However, you should never pair a silicone lubricant with a silicone toy because the lube will deteriorate the dildo, altering the integrity of your toy.
Don’t push yourself!
For some size queens, their eyes are bigger than their orifices! And while it may seem like a sexy challenge to see what you can fit, there is no reason to try anything that is beyond your current comfort level.
Particularly in porn, these stars make using monster dildos easy but there is a lot of preparation that goes into such extreme acts. So don’t compare yourself or try to go beyond the limits of your comfort.
Tips On Getting The Most Pleasure from Your Large Dildo
Below are some top tips to help ease you into using a huge dildo. Safety and comfort are essential whether you are playing solo or engaging with a partner.
Foreplay
Just like with sexual intercourse, foreplay is key to having an amazing experience with large dildos. It’s essential to warm up the body, to help stay relaxed. And there are many types of foreplay that you or your partner can include that will add to the pleasure, fun and intimacy of the experience.
For example, your partner could play with your nipples or first arouse you with oral sex. And while an orgasm will always provide a happy ending, the journey of getting there is what makes sex so satisfying and fun. So don’t skip over the enjoyable aspects of foreplay.
Start slow
As noted above, using a giant dildo should not be looked at like competing in a race. The key to playing with sex toys is taking your time, exploring what feels good and moving at a comfortable pace. Especially if you want to penetrate the anus with a dildo, you need to move slowly and carefully.
Take the time to savor the various sensations as you expand the anal or vaginal cavity. Experiment with different kinds of toys, such as the one that vibrate for additional stimulation (see here the difference between a vibrator vs dildo).
Or if you have a large glass dildo, you can explore temperature play, like warming your dildo under hot water before use. You could even use a large homemade ice dildo for freezing sensations.
The more time you take to lengthen the experience, the more satisfaction you will receive, during the final climax.
Be generous with lube
Lube should be an important part of most sexual activities. There is no need to feel shameful if you don’t feel ‘wet enough,’ especially when it comes to inserting a large dildo into your vagina. Particularly with women, moisture inside the vagina can vary, depending on a number of factors, including the menstrual cycle and in order to feel more comfortable and sensual. Using a lubricant will help increase the ease of using a large dildo, particularly if you are new to penetration with bigger toys.
The key with lubricant is to choose the proper kind. For example, if your dildo is made from silicone material, you cannot use a silicone-based lube as it will slowly degrade your dildo. However if you choose a dildo made from materials such a glass, stainless steel, rubber or PVC, you should use a water-based lubricant instead.
Lube is essential for anal sex
When it comes to anal sex with a dildo, you will want to choose an anal lubricant because this type of lube tends to last longer and is generally thicker in viscosity. Using a lubricant both on the toy and around the anus is extremely important because unlike the vaginal, the anus is not self-lubricating. Without a proper lube, you could tear the anal cavity which can cause pain and discomfort.
Become aroused
You can also incorporate other sex toys or hot play with your partner at the same time, when you use a dildo for vagina or anal penetration. Or use sex toys on yourself during a fun masturbation session to help increase arousal and relaxation.
Before you incorporate a huge dildo into sex, you will want to be extremely aroused. First, try to relax by assuming a comfortable position before penetration. Feel free to masturbate until your orgasm to relax yourself while enjoying erotic sensations, as you prepare yourself for the large dildo.
Clitoral stimulation is a great way to become aroused and this can be achieved by using a vibrator or even via your fingers. If you have a partner, you can ask them to stimulate your clitoris to increase pleasure and anticipation. Consider using toys such as bullet vibes or clit pumps.
If you prefer backdoor action, anal stimulation can also help ease a toy inside. Anal stimulation can take a few forms; analingus or ”rimming’ is the act of oral stimulation on the outside of the anus. Or you could try inserting a small vibrating toy as well.
When it comes to anal pleasures, using a butt plug can also help with the insertion of a toy. A butt plug can help ‘expand’ your sphincter muscles, relaxing your anal cavity.
Try different positions
To have the best experience, you can also try other positions, while you are being penetrated or using a huge dildo on yourself. While there are many different configurations you can try, the best position is one that feels best, allowing you to enjoy the toy at various angles.
Some positions can include missionary, doggy-style, cowgirl or even squatting over your dildo. And whatever position you choose will be determined by whether you are incorporating a partner or enjoying solo play. That said, there are many movements that are versatile enough to use either way.
Conclusion
Large dildos can be a lot of fun and can offer a challenge when it comes to sexual pleasure. But before your purchase a giant toy, it’s essential to learn how to use a large dildo, so that you can make the most of your erotic experience. Just remember to go slow, incorporate foreplay into your act and don’t forget to use copious amounts of lube.
